6 Strategies To Support A Child Struggling With Anxiety
More children now than ever are experiencing anxiety. If your child is exhibiting symptoms of anxiety, know that there are strategies that you can implement at home to help. What follows are six of my top strategies to help a child with anxiety. P.S. It’s rare to find parents who do all of these things and do them well. Be kind to yourself, you’re growing and developing as a parent too.
Home-Based Support For Children With Anxiety
- Make sure that your child’s needs are being met for connection, time outside, sleep, physical play, hydration, and nutrients. Every child needs different levels of all these things. Practice being a detective: pay attention to the days that your child really seems to thrive and notice and the days that they struggle; as yourself which needs are have or haven’t been met on those days.
- Have predictable routines to start and end the day. Bookending the day with predictability, connection, and calm gives your child a centered place from which to go out into the world from and a safe haven to look forward to returning to.
- Understand that co-regulation is superior to self-regulation. Self-regulation of emotions is essential to wellbeing in adulthood. The ability to self-regulate effectively is learned via co-regulation. This PDF document gives excellent advice on how to help your child regulate from infancy to young adulthood.
- Practice the art of staying present while giving space. Sometimes kids need some time and space when they are upset. Let them know that they can safely ask for space, and tell them you’re available whenever they want to talk or need a hug. Check in regularly.
- Take care of yourself so that you can model good mental health and stay present, grounded, and dependable through the ups and downs of childhood. This means making sure that your needs are met too. Hydration, nutrition, exercise, sleep, meditation, time outside, laughing with friends, and work/hobbies outside the home are all important for a parent’s well-being.
- Model self compassion. Parenting can be tough, exhausting, and stressful- especially in 2022. None of us are perfect. You deserve the same love and compassion that you offer to everyone else in your life. Practicing self compassion is also modeling self compassion which goes a long way to easing anxiety.
Nutraceutical Support For Children Experiencing Anxiety
Nutraceuticals can support and calm an anxious nervous system, but are secondary to home and lifestyle when considering how to help a child struggling with anxiety. That being said, they can offer incredible relief from symptoms and greater capacity to implement and respond to changes.
Calming herbs: Organic Peace & Calm (For Kids) contains a synergistic blend of four herbs that can be used to help find a moment of calm in the day and/or can help with relaxation before bed at night.
Stress resilience herbs: Focus & Attention (For Kids) contains herbs that help kids mental health during times of stress, burn-out, and overwhelm.
As parents there is a lot we can do to support our children’s mental health. The main themes are offering predictability and stability; making sure that physical needs are met; modeling good mental health practices; and staying grounded and unruffled when our kids exhibit anxiety symptoms.
Nutraceutical support can help provide relief, but real healing of anxiety happens through connection.
If home treatment isn’t enough, don’t hesitate to reach out to a mental health professional to get help. In addition to the normal trials and tribulations of childhood, our kids are growing up through a pandemic, social isolation, climate change, and global instability. There is no shame in needing extra support now or ever.
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